Aion Riftshade

Hi can i have help here ? plume have ben destroyed and gone after i try upgrade from +3 to +4 , all my time and kinah that i spend to make +3 then i got one from event and i try to upgrade +4 and gone , am really felling to no played any more , is sad very sad  

Well it happens, every time you enchant plume it give warning that it might be destroyed